Comments - Intent...Action...Effect! - ADRhub - Creighton NCR2024-03-28T21:01:57Zhttp://www.adrhub.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=4905899%3ABlogPost%3A15958&xn_auth=noHey Jeff, I think effect is b…tag:www.adrhub.com,2011-05-24:4905899:Comment:168472011-05-24T11:08:57.388ZJason Dykstrahttp://www.adrhub.com/profile/JasonDykstra
Hey Jeff, I think effect is both private and public. The public part I would say is there verbal/non-verbal reaction to the action. But I would say effect is mainly private, because we can't know what is happening in (both) people. Every person would interpret the action through their own experiences and form their "effect."
Hey Jeff, I think effect is both private and public. The public part I would say is there verbal/non-verbal reaction to the action. But I would say effect is mainly private, because we can't know what is happening in (both) people. Every person would interpret the action through their own experiences and form their "effect." Thanks for the clarification!tag:www.adrhub.com,2011-05-23:4905899:Comment:164952011-05-23T23:11:51.868ZNicole Bohehttp://www.adrhub.com/profile/NicoleBohe
Thanks for the clarification!
Thanks for the clarification! Jason,
Thanks for sharing t…tag:www.adrhub.com,2011-05-23:4905899:Comment:166712011-05-23T21:52:34.789ZJeff Thompsonhttp://www.adrhub.com/profile/JeffThompson
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<p>Thanks for sharing this. One question that comes to my mind- isn't "effect" both private and public as it not only effects (or affects?) you internally but also externally as well as the other person (the decoder)?</p>
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<p>Thanks for sharing this. One question that comes to my mind- isn't "effect" both private and public as it not only effects (or affects?) you internally but also externally as well as the other person (the decoder)?</p> Hey Nicole, thanks for the co…tag:www.adrhub.com,2011-05-23:4905899:Comment:166692011-05-23T20:04:47.527ZJason Dykstrahttp://www.adrhub.com/profile/JasonDykstra
<p>Hey Nicole, thanks for the comment and question...let me see if I can do it justice! </p>
<p>Q: How much control do I really have over the effect? </p>
<p>A: None, you can not control how the other person is going to receive the comment/action however you can make sure that your intent is not to harm them as well as the delivery of that action as well. They will take the comment as they take it. </p>
<p>Q: How does our reaction in the effect portion formulate?</p>
<p>A: I think we…</p>
<p>Hey Nicole, thanks for the comment and question...let me see if I can do it justice! </p>
<p>Q: How much control do I really have over the effect? </p>
<p>A: None, you can not control how the other person is going to receive the comment/action however you can make sure that your intent is not to harm them as well as the delivery of that action as well. They will take the comment as they take it. </p>
<p>Q: How does our reaction in the effect portion formulate?</p>
<p>A: I think we interpret the person's intent based on their non-verbal communication, they words they actually said, our relationships with them, and our past experiences. Through all these things (and maybe more) we formulate the effect on us. It goes beyond the habit and personality of a person, though they are both factors as well I would say.</p>
<p>Hope this answers your questions! If you need anything clarified please feel free to ask! </p>
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<p> </p> This model made sense to me.…tag:www.adrhub.com,2011-05-22:4905899:Comment:164842011-05-22T15:32:20.152ZNicole Bohehttp://www.adrhub.com/profile/NicoleBohe
<p>This model made sense to me. In thinking about communication, I realize that I am relatively thoughtful on my intent, but how much control do I really have over the effect? And when I react to someone's communication, I tend to err on the defensive side, similar to your vacuum example. Is this because I am not truly considering the speaker's intent? How does our reaction in the "effect" portion formulate? Is it habit? Personality?</p>
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<p>Looking forward to your breakdown, I'm sure…</p>
<p>This model made sense to me. In thinking about communication, I realize that I am relatively thoughtful on my intent, but how much control do I really have over the effect? And when I react to someone's communication, I tend to err on the defensive side, similar to your vacuum example. Is this because I am not truly considering the speaker's intent? How does our reaction in the "effect" portion formulate? Is it habit? Personality?</p>
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<p>Looking forward to your breakdown, I'm sure it will continue to be thought-provoking!</p>