[originally published in dialogicmediation]

tricycle, the Buddhist Review, introduced a new feature, "Dear Abbey Dharma", in its Spring 2010 issue to offer advice to readers' toughest Dhamma questions. The column is authored by Sylvia Boorstein, a psychotherapist and founding teacher of Spirit Rock Meditation Center in California.

Her first
column is now on-line; it deals with a meditation teacher's need to keep a balanced view on politics. I started wondering what it would read like if the words 'Buddhist' and 'Buddhism' were replaced by mediation; if teacher was replaced by mediation supervisor or colleague. Here's the entire text.
Dear Abbey Dharma, In my lifetime of professional work in Canadian social service, I have gone from being left-leaning to Social Conservative. I don’t find a place for myself in any Western Buddhist sangha where being politically left is the norm. Even my current dharma teacher spews out hateful speech against just about anyone and everything on the right side of the spectrum. I have a hard time listening to a Buddhist teacher going on about how much he despises George W. Bush or Sarah Palin or people like me. No one but me even notices, or at least is affected by it. How can I remain part of the Western Buddhist community under these conditions?—Up North
Dear Up North, I would also have several reasons for not trusting the wisdom of a Buddhist teacher who, as you say, “goes on about how much he despises” or “spews out hateful speech” about any particular group of people. My first reason for not trusting his wisdom is his manner of speech, which is abusive. Another is the ignorance shown by stereotyping groups of people, such as “the right” or “the left,” as categorically unworthy. Another reason is the teacher’s apparently fixed attachment to a view.

I think it is difficult these days to keep a balanced mind about politics. Morality, decency, and kindness (fundamental spiritual virtues) have been claimed by both the right and the left as their core values. Political opponents are presented as enemies rather that adversaries, villains rather than committed civil servants with differing views. The issues— world peace, planetary survival— can be frightening. When I am frightened, I have trouble remembering that my view is just a view and that I could be wrong.

I think that calling oneself a Buddhist implies a dedication to non-greed, non-hatred, and non-delusion—a dedication that certainly transcends political stance. It would be wonderful if our sanghas welcomed political diversity and used practices of skillful speech to explain our opinions to one another. In situations that do not feel combative to me, I can work collegially. I can modify my position to accommodate others. I can recognize situations in which an attachment to a particular view has kept me from realizing a larger truth. What if we, as Buddhists in communities, were a model for the world political community?
You can make the substitutions for yourself. What do you think? It pretty much works for me, except perhaps for the last paragraph. But I'm not attached to that view!

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Comment by ADRhub.com - Creighton NCR on June 28, 2010 at 11:21am
Thanks for sharing this.

I haven't read Tricycle for sometime now but always enjoyed it. I think one of the (great) core teachings Buddha taught was to not take anyone's teachings blindly but rather apply it to your own life and come to your own conclusions.

I think this applies to the mediation field as well. Often people will take someone's teachings or books (or comments at a conference!) to be the automatic standard and not question its relevance to their own practice.

Of course I am not saying everyone is full of rubbish either but rather not being at either end of the spectrum helps keep us balanced.

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